Maybe you remember those difficult moments that sometimes accompanied you. You remember those nights of crying that you couldn’t get rid of. Breakups, lost friendships, unfulfilled dreams. Everything made you stop thinking about yourself. She blamed herself. I know, it wasn’t easy.
A state of anxiety that makes you stand still. Feelings of sadness and loss. You feel that you can’t do anything, that the world is a bad place, from which there is no escape from the stereotype. But is it really so? You can stand up if you really want to.
The feeling of anxiety should be detected as soon as possible and the door should not be closed to it, after all, everyone sometimes feels like a walking depression. Everyone sometimes feels like they can’t handle it and it’s too much for them. When is it just too much and when does it border on a mental disorder?
If you feel that the state of sadness and bad thoughts towards yourself does not stop, you should find help. Try to find someone to give you a helping hand. To find someone who will encourage you in these difficult moments and in whom you can find support. Find someone who will know what to say, but on the other hand will allow you to think about how you should fix it yourself.
In recent years, however, the stereotype regarding mental disorders has changed. We strive for understanding. We try to accept the fact that times change and therefore our perception changes as well. Depression, which we experience with all the difficulties.
Fear for work or strange feelings that our partner harbors for us, all this drives us crazy. Let’s break the stereotype towards our feelings and problems. Let’s try to look at these feelings differently. Let’s accept them and try to heal from them.
Ask for help if you need it. There is no shame in going to a good specialist. There is no shame in finding support in someone and listening to their advice. It’s just taking care of your health. Why is it so difficult for us to accept the fact that a psychologist is the same doctor as, for example, an orthopedist?
I think the mistake will be that these mental disorders started to increase and started to be talked about more at this time, but they were still there. Don’t be afraid to admit that you failed. The next step to success is just accepting the fact that you can change it. Ask for help if you need it.